Let me begin my story with a little history… I am a simple mixed race boy brought up in a family that speaks English, except for the Father. Sent to Chinese Primary to ‘educate’ chinese into me.. Which succeeded mostly. Continued in Malay Secondary due to hate of Chinese. Anyway, the story everyone has been waiting for.. The Gayhood.
At the age of 11 or 12, I always had a fascination on other guy’s private. I always thought it was.. well.. interesting. This fascination carried on to secondary school… I had crushes here and there… Watched gay porn and all… Even got caught once by mom at around 13 or so.. Anyway, she ignored it after telling me off. When i was 14, I started getting close to guys that I thought was…’interesting’ at the time… Most of them were younger… Always wanted to be near them and chat with them and all… This carried on until one day when one of them actually spoke to me about sex, and then things flowed until he ended up my boyfriend for a while. Until we fought over something and then things stopped for a while… At 16, it started again.. The same guy, we got back together and all.. But it lasted only for a little while again.. However this time, it struck me.. That I AM gay.. or at least had the option of being one.. WHich never left my mind ever since… I had a girlfriend here and there, looked at guys and all.. and things just stayed that way… Every now and then I would tell my friend, I want to be gay, or i give up being gay… Those were the childish days of course, at 17. 18th birthday came, and then I came into full consideration whether I was gay or not… I did so many researches here and there to help me decide.. Many of which actually did indicate that I am what I am.. But I just couldn’t accept it.. DIdn’t want to allow myself to be like that.. Talked to a few friends about it, had some direct questions thrown at me… But I chose to ignore them and not answer… Not because I am afraid or anything, but because there was a sense of uncertainty. By then I had already joined a website and friendster of course, both of which allowing me to gain access to the gay community, with the initial thought of learning what gay is… I even started meeting people from these websites… Some even traveled some distance just to meet mem which I am very grateful of… One day, I just thought about it more and more… And finally justified it with myself, that I wouldn’t be what I am if it wasn’t meant to be… And so, the official Gay David came to be..
Met one person after another, all telling me that I should have sex.. Some even thought me how to, verbally of course… Some made fun of me that I was still a virgin… I never actually wanted to rush directly into it.. Behind my mind, everytime they asked me what role i was, thought to myself, I dunnoe, both seems fun… Anyway, yeah… That was how everything started to begin with…
Our next episode will be on how I came to know my first official gay boyfriend… Stay tune in this story of mine, as it becomes more and more interesting… before I finally reveal to you readers, why i started blogging..
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